and having that happen before to me i can say that as long as you and the other player are sensible people you can usually talk that out and either get a retcon quickly or, even better, figure out reasons for both your characters to have a different opinion on that (like having one character be convinced that kissing does equate to dating in that example while the other one doesn't think that counts could work)
usually it'd be better though to discuss things like that before they ever happen, but i can see some people just going for that before ever considering other people, but as long as they're not a problem player or a wanker i think it'll usually work out okay enough
if they're a a wanker though there's already going to be several problems as it is without that unfortunately
and i'm really glad she's not forcing that interpretation on anyone
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and having that happen before to me i can say that as long as you and the other player are sensible people you can usually talk that out and either get a retcon quickly or, even better, figure out reasons for both your characters to have a different opinion on that (like having one character be convinced that kissing does equate to dating in that example while the other one doesn't think that counts could work)
usually it'd be better though to discuss things like that before they ever happen, but i can see some people just going for that before ever considering other people, but as long as they're not a problem player or a wanker i think it'll usually work out okay enough
if they're a a wanker though there's already going to be several problems as it is without that unfortunately
and i'm really glad she's not forcing that interpretation on anyone