might not be what you're looking for but as someone who periodically plays from some of the series I can tell you that we have a lot of melodramatic shitheads in this fandom. like, a disproportionate number compared to fandoms of similar size. there are a few severely assmad rpers who've been grudging for years about not getting to play their ships or something else dumb and they hang out around rp!s and the anon communities a lot.

everything is such a huge goddamn deal to these people but they get ignored a lot. that only increases their buttfuriousness and they periodically come out of hiding to whine about how everyone is gay and terrible and mean.