if it's what i'm thinking about, i read that love meme, and if no one had responded to her initial comment (which wasn't even wanky, iirc? i could be misremembering there, though), then there wouldn't have been any problem for anyone

she made a comment. some responded with 'tough love' to her. things escalated.

why don't people just ignore her? it seems like it would be easier... she doesn't listen to people when her mind is set and has a tendency to state her opinions in a very hostile manner... it seems like it's always gonna escalate into wank if you confront her on them so why bother talking to her in the first place?