But you don't understand, anon! Dean's only angry because he loves Cas so much! He's not really angry at him, he's angry at himself, and don't you know Dean? He just doesn't know how to express himself any other way! It's totally okay to guilt trip and yell at someone who's mentally ill so long as you really love them :)

seriously all the people saying this (and worse) are people i thought i liked. i'm one of the people who thinks Cas was pretty much playing everyone, cracked he might be, but saying shit like this to justify how Dean't acting is never okay.