I love how most of it turns into "oh no you shouldn't go anon first".
See, I'd agree with it if it wasn't so "coddle everybody." In the real world, people are going to talk about you behind your back. Prepare yourself for that and don't throw a tantrum about it. On the internet, people are going to talk about you behind your back. Prepare yourself for that and don't throw a tantrum about it.
I honestly don't see why you should be have to be all "no please come to me privately where no one else can see" all the time. Why not open HMDs? Some people might have the same issue, some people might know ways to fix it. It's not that hard to just reasonably listen and respond like an adult.
Re: http://prof.dreamwidth.org/176660.html
See, I'd agree with it if it wasn't so "coddle everybody." In the real world, people are going to talk about you behind your back. Prepare yourself for that and don't throw a tantrum about it. On the internet, people are going to talk about you behind your back. Prepare yourself for that and don't throw a tantrum about it.
I honestly don't see why you should be have to be all "no please come to me privately where no one else can see" all the time. Why not open HMDs? Some people might have the same issue, some people might know ways to fix it. It's not that hard to just reasonably listen and respond like an adult.