Newsflash: your friends are two-face bitches. stating opinions and venting makes them hate you and they want you to leave the game. if you are afraid of wank or the possibility of wank, RP isn't for you. just don't give any fucks about persistent wankers and enjoy the ride.

unless you have a lot of haters, then, yes. give fucks and please leave the game. but less than five in a big game doesn't matter. less than than three in a medium doesn't matter. less than two in a small game doesn't matter. it's easy enough for them to avoid you if they don't like you.