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Re: YUKINA

(Anonymous) 2012-03-05 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah guys, just talk to her one on one! It's not like she's a two faced bitch who will passive aggressively talk shit about you forever if you end up having a dispute! Oh, wait, that's what she does best.

Get the fuck out and stop trying to pretend like you're at all an innocent, agreeable person.
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Re: YUKINA

[personal profile] inksmears 2012-03-05 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
where and when have i done that? honestly, i'd like to know. because i can't think of a time i've done so. i admit that i can hold grudges for a long time, depending on what went down and with who, but i try really hard to not let it get the best of me. and eventually i forgive and forget and sometimes make amends with whoever i wronged.

i'm not innocent and i'm not always agreeable. i can be reasonable, though, if given the chance.
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(Anonymous) 2012-03-07 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)
oooh I've been told off by a white knight. I'm feel so ashamed.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-07 12:25 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm not here to make you ashamed, nor take sides, i'm here to, to put it bluntly, ask for deets.

is that better.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-07 01:36 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao
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[personal profile] inksmears 2012-03-07 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm asking for the deets myself, really...

(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
get out of here

da & different complaint

(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Apologies to give message here rather than a HMD, but I could not find a global one for you, and it is an issue that I see in all your games. You have them infomod a lot with your troll characters.

It happened once in a game we were in, but I dropped the game later (not due to the info-modding but due to not feeling the game) so did not think it prudent in mentioning it. It was awhile ago, and I felt it was not something to bring up and someone else would talk to you about it. But in another games that we are in together recently, you're still doing it.

I realize that your character could be insightful (I don't know Homestruck), but you probably need to have a permissions post if you are going to do that, because it is honestly disconcerting to play with you when your trolls bring up something that my characters are not hinting or even talking about.

I won't tell you what game or which of my characters. That's not the point of this, because I have seen you do it with other characters, too. Since I don't know how cool villain players feel having your trolls immediately know that they are villains, or that they are "up to something," when they're working on blending in. Like how your trolls knew instantly from posts of mine that they're actually have something deep in their past and start asking questions after it when they were talking about say the weather.

It's my opinion that you did not clear with them that your characters immediately know since you never cleared with me in all the times it happened, but hey, I might be wrong in that respect and if I am, then just ignore that bit if it came off as a low blow. And hey, sorry for the blindside but if you want deets on something that annoys people and why you might be on here, so here is something and hopefully some helpful critique.
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[personal profile] inksmears 2012-03-09 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
i am a bit confused, admittedly, because... i haven't played any of the Homestuck trolls until very recently. they are both in games that are less than two months old. so i haven't really had a chance to get my legs with either of them yet. unless you mean the Homestuck kids? because i have played two of them for a much longer. you couldn't tell me which trolls it was that i did this with, could you? i know you don't know Homestuck, but do you remember their names at all?

but still, thank you very, very much for this! i don't feel blindsided, i was hoping for some kind of feedback. i definitely have not noticed this so i'm really glad you brought it up. i will watch myself for this and be more careful in the future.

if you ever have more constructive criticism like this that much stretch across all my characters, feel free to use any of my characters' HMD posts for it. just clarify that it's a problem you're having with everyone, not just the one character. i mean, i don't mind hearing it here, but in the future if it's easier for you!

(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Tracking post as I felt you would want to know immediately what is up. Like I said, I don't know HS. I don't know the difference between the kids, or the trolls in terms of appearance. I would say that it is every single one we interacted with, though, as I can at least say there was a character color change from one game to the next, and so on. And, I don't really pay attention to the names. I usually have to click on the person's journal to be able to tell them apart. That is how far out of HS fandom I am as a player.

Also, I am willing to give the benefit of the doubt that it was simply not recognizing it. So on that front, don't worry about it. It has been awhile for me if you say you've just picked up the trolls since I guess I'm talking about a kid as this was back on LJ before the great move.

Sorry to further the discussion here, but this is presently easiest for me. So, both constructive criticism and also saying that this is also extending a courtesy to another player, too. If you have a character that is insightful like say Sherlock Holmes, you might want to have a permissions post up to ask if they can notice things about other characters. Or at the very least, shoot a message to the player to ask if it is all right. Something else to contemplate along with being careful about it in the future.

Because in the end, it can come off as not just info-modding but at the very least, showing a pattern of lack of courtesy to other players. Which may or may not be what these anons are talking about when they said being offensive, or offending others. Since it can be offending to people to be put in an awkward situation, especially if they don't know the fandom, or know you personally, because they don't know how a person is going to react. This may not be a great revelation, but it needs to be mentioned all the same.

And once more to reassure, I did not drop the game back in LJ due to info-modding or feeling boxed in by that situation, it was not feeling it. In case someone wants to start a rumor about what an anon told you here somewhere.
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[personal profile] inksmears 2012-03-09 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, okay! got it.

thanks again and sorry for having done this to you in the past! i promise i will be more careful. and again, i appreciate you taking the time to inform me about this. because like i said, i was completely clueless to this behavior. :( and you're right, it must come off as really rude and insensitive. so i'll straighten up.

again, thank you very much!!

(Anonymous) 2012-03-09 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Welcome, and it's fine.