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Re: lulu / maru / whatever she goes by now

[(Anonymous)]

lmao lulu thanks for owning up to it in a circle of like 15 people who will all gently pamper your butt while you martyr yourself. i believe it happened but i'm skeptical about the contents. how long ago was it anyway?

DA

[(Anonymous)]

Because making a public apology about stuff that most people don't even remember (except for grudgewankers) will help...

If you're so set in getting an apology, ask her yourself. She's pretty stable right now.

[(Anonymous)]

taking public responsibility even if "no one remembers" is cool. sorry you can't see how owning up to stuff can actually be a good thing.

[(Anonymous)]

That's not going to change anything and you know it. That she isn't an annoying SJ warrior anymore + taking care of her mental health first, RP second is working really well for her.

Again, if you feel she personally wronged you, ask her for an apology. I'm sure she'll apologize.

[(Anonymous)]

being she has frequently said one thing to someones face and then another elsewhere it is hard to take an apology from her all that seriously. it's great that you have faith in her and all but i can't take her owning up to a circle of friends who have attacked people on her behalf as well as frequently encouraged and enabled her bad behavior as growing or maturing.

in this case, a genuine no excuses public owning up would go a long way considering she has caused a lot of trouble in her not so distant past. or hell, getting off her ass and approaching people she knows she has given hell would mean a lot more than suggesting they should come to her. something to consider.

i can only assume you are a friend of hers too being as you're trying (patiently, which i personally appreciate) to defend her, but i honestly encourage you to encourage her to do the right thing in this case which is not hide an apology behind closed doors but take real responsibility for what she's done. if she's truly growing beyond what she's done in the past, that would be the biggest step forward.

[septim]

Hey, Anon.

I have apologized to people such as Hales in private for being a little shit to them. I like to make my apologies a bit more specific than, "I'm sorry for being a little shit," in a public setting, but considering I've made a lot of mistakes which makes it hard to tailor a public apology to all, that's why you haven't seen a public apology.

However, I'd like to apologize to you and others who I've wronged. I make no excuses for my behavior, I should've gotten professional help sooner and taken care not to use the internet as as escape and a therapist. I understand if you (or others) would prefer to keep staying away from me, since respect is earned and not owed.

Again, I'm really sorry for the distress I've caused.

[(Anonymous)]

Haha meanwhile most of the people she was a little shit to completely deserved it.

[septim]

Hey, Anon, can we not? Whether that's true or not, it still doesn't excuse my behavior.

[(Anonymous)]

As someone you have treated poorly in the past, though I carry no hard feelings for what's been done (even though it did hurt at the time, I have moved on from it and was willing to live and let live), I accept your apology. I don't wish to identify myself but I do hope others will also accept what you've said here.

[septim]

Thank you, Anon. This means a lot.