Well, then I'm glad she's got one friend who'll stick by her. I will admit entirely that I want her to grow out of this behavior.
But I am never going to speak to her again. Maybe I did not handle myself with absolutely perfect tact. Maybe I could have been more thoughtful. But that doesn't excuse her treatment of me, and I'm not going to speak to her because everything I've described was my experience with her and I do not want to have to endure that kind of emotional abuse. I don't want to deal with her deflecting the confrontations I raise to her and having her attack me and force an apology out of me for something absolutely stupidly minor. I don't want to deal with her hypocrisy of getting mad at me for not confronting her when she never confronts me.
I can't do it. Absolutely cannot. And that is the case with most of the people who were pushed away/backed off from Tango.
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(Anonymous) 2012-01-30 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)But I am never going to speak to her again. Maybe I did not handle myself with absolutely perfect tact. Maybe I could have been more thoughtful. But that doesn't excuse her treatment of me, and I'm not going to speak to her because everything I've described was my experience with her and I do not want to have to endure that kind of emotional abuse. I don't want to deal with her deflecting the confrontations I raise to her and having her attack me and force an apology out of me for something absolutely stupidly minor. I don't want to deal with her hypocrisy of getting mad at me for not confronting her when she never confronts me.
I can't do it. Absolutely cannot. And that is the case with most of the people who were pushed away/backed off from Tango.