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[(Anonymous)]

Nope. I'm an aunt to a dozen kids starting at age three months and one having just turned ten. When they act up, they get spanked as soon as they get home.

Guess who doesn't have to deal with their nieces and nephews laying down on Wal-Mart floors and pitching a fit, throwing things off shelves, or otherwise pitching a fit in public because they know they'll be getting spanked if they do? Me. It's great. They're great kids.

I used to be friend with this one woman who didn't spank her kids at all. They broke several expensive things in her employer's house because they wouldn't listen and really had no reason to (she never punished them). She was always really sorry, but I wouldn't be paying two thousand dollars to repair anything in my house without showing those kids what a wooden spoon could do to your asscheeks.

[(Anonymous)]

lmao @ you getting all high and mighty about OMG ARE YOU A PARENT and you not being one yourself.

wow, that's a cool story bro, but I've known kids who were never spanked and turned out to be great and kids who were spanked who were violent offenders because they learned that when someone did "bad," they should get hit in some capacity. it's almost like kids are different!

also, not spanking != not punishing. nowhere did i say kids shouldn't be punished. they should be.

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[(Anonymous)]

But anon, spanking is the ONLY PUNISHMENT EVER because kids are too stupid to learn any other way. I mean, what do you want people to do, treat them like human beings?

[(Anonymous)]

It's been proven that if time passes during the day and they're punished for it later than what they did wrong happened they won't know why they're getting punished. Also to say that them getting spanked has them acting right doesn't really say much. The anon above was right in saying that spanking is a lazy parenting technique. Sure the sting from it tells the kid that they did something wrong, but doesn't show them what is right as its' a trial and consequence process (they do something else wrong? spanked. that pattern can continue or become worse as they'll get frustrated and really start acting out.)

I don't know if you mean that your friend never punished them as in she never spanked or that she never did any sort of consequence like time-out or something.

[(Anonymous)]

It's been proven? How old were the kids in these alleged studies? Because past a certain age if your kid doesn't know that the punishment that came later is because of something bad they did earlier, it's time to get them tested for a disorder, or your communication skills suck ass. Kids aren't dogs. They have higher cognitive function than that.

[(Anonymous)]

The kids were little, like around 2 - 5 age. It's been said that most/all kids that young can't comprehend or remember what they did earlier in the day to deserve the punishment later.

I do agree that past a certain age if they're still having trouble then they should be tested (that is if the parent doesn't suck at parenting).

[(Anonymous)]

Uh, your five year old can definitely remember and comprehend what they did during the day.

So can your four year old. And probably your three year old. Two might be pushing it, but why would you be punishing your two year old at the end of a day anyway?