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Anon, how is "ah. well. I told him he doesn't owe the anons anything or any replies. orz but he's answering them too. none of the anons have asked me" exactly passive aggressive? She is stating two facts. There is no underlying aggressiveness there except for an obvious annoyance of the anons harassing him. The 'orz' in this case is an emote of tiredness, which accurately sums up this situation for everyone. That any statement she made in that Plurk is p/a is absolutely false.

Hth. You anons have to stop this bullshit of calling both of them p/a for no good reason.

Talking about the PM he said he got that lead to him dropping. He replied since last time.

Hth.

That she used an orz in a pm is p/a is just as stupid an assumption. Give context first before spreading this any further. Can we see a copy of this pm? Can we see the order in which pm were exchanged? Do that first.

Greedmun just responded to the anons in Ozaki's journal again. Jade had sent a PM requesting that she pull DM out of the Sotoba plot because of the nasty implications made about her in that rp!s, which made her uncomfortable about continuing with the plot.

Gist of it is, she was only acknowledging the anons' insults and suspicions and was sorry that Greedmun got involved in all the wank.

This, tbh. He saw all of those insults. She was only laying down that it wasn't him but the anons.

I'm wondering how he doesn't see that she was only feeling bad about the whole thing, especially the anons. He was probably just mad about all of this.

Only the whitest knight isn't going to see how that can be read as p/a and the second one as bitchy.

He said he was mad and then came up with another way to see it. As usual he stayed neutral said both couldbe seen. he recognizes anything is going to be awkward and assumes its the second one.

... How is the second one bitchy? She was only apologizing for the grief he got from all this.

Grief he thinks she started, after her being pretty passive aggressive with him for being one of many thinking that.

So you're saying... he's getting back at her for making him suffer through grief because you suggest she might have been thinking he might have been one of those that thought the same of what the anons thought of her. Are you following me? Except that's where you're wrong: she said it was because of the anons and not him, and she laid it out clearly as to why the anons were making her uncomfortable.

That's not p/a. That's just a.

She's apologizing for the grief the anons caused. The anons were the one who refused to let the matter drop and let Greedmun and Jade privately settle it.

If you think she's bitchy, he just as much as an asshole. Tbh, I think it shows they're both more on the 'aggressive' side of 'p/a'. Can we all go home now since this does prove that they're handeling it themselves?

I can see how both of those can be interpreted p/a and bitchy, but it looks like people here are still wary, hold grudges, or that he himself is framing her in a bad light. That's natural; there's still suspicion, and he's obviously annoyed by anons. Remember in her response that she did say she was trying to make it clear that it wasn't him or awkwardness, but what anons said to her. Listing it that way couldn't make it more clear that she was uncomfortable with what the anons said, but if he took it as "catty" that's his fault. Even if she actually was, based on what she did list and what the anons did say to her, can anyone hold that response against her?

The second one is her apologizing for everything. Greedmun mentioned that she had CR between Ozaki and all of her characters. How could she have known that he would drop as a result? She probably felt sympathetic for him dropping a muse that she did like as well (otherwise, why would she have CR with all three of her muses with one of his?), hence the "orz" and the "sorry for all of this" response.

I don't believe her pulling out of a plot was necessary, and I don't think him dropping was necessary. They might have both been too annoyed by anons.

Framing her in a bad light by quoting her own words directly. Really.

He copy/pasted private messages. Maybe he should have asked for her consent, maybe he didn't. Whatever. Either way, using those pms, he implied that he also thinks she's p/a, which in turn is giving something more for the grudgeanons to use against her.

> If he copy/pasted directly from PM, there's no way he wouldn't get consent. Otherwise he'd look like an ass, and since he used them Jade must be sticking by what she said and letting her words stand as is.

> He's only answering questions by the anons. There's nothing wrong with that, and he used the PMs as evidence for his character (which would include realizing that she meant sympathy, despite his initial pissed-off judgement).

are

are anons on Jade's side really suspecting him of c/ping without permission

really

Why doesn't sock anon or anon go and ask Jade or Greedmun about it?

He replied to her with a "Fuck it, I'll just drop him" and he didn't ask for her permission to show the PMs to everyone. If that doesn't scream asshole, what does?

see here:

http://anticirclejerk.dreamwidth.org/2687.html?thread=7835263#cmt7835263

He probably does have a grudge against her because she opted-out. She was only apologizing.

Absolutely. It's obvious he's upset (and she's uncomfortable about it), and only the real shit-stirrers would read OMG THAT'S P/A SHE'S A BITCH from her comments. As I said it looks like by listing what those anons said, she was only explaining her rational to him. In her response to all of the anons last ACJ thread: "I attempted to make it clear that it wasn't because of any awkwardness between us or unwillingness to play on my part, but rather because of what anons have said." Pretty cut-and-dry obvious to me that it's not being p/a, but simply stating her reasons. Ofc to look at this all fairly, we need to take into account that she gave her response after seeing that anons still hadn't quieted down, and then we would her pm, his response pm, and then her short pm back. ~Context is key~

*would need

Also Greedmun should know who this grudgewanker is. If you are still talking to them, please tell them to calm their tits.

So she uses 'orz'. Like I said, it's downright appropriate for all of this. 'Orz' is not a p/a emoticon in general. It's a figure representing being defeated and tired. If you tie that into a pm they were exchanging that you say led to him dropping (which he still has never confirmed) it probably meant that she realized there's nothing she can do to help this situation anymore.

http://sotobas-lot.dreamwidth.org/298.html?thread=137002#cmt137002

Copy of the PM, copy of what he said in secrets, and that orz sorry came after he said he would drop.

If that first PM doesn't ring p/a you don't know what the words mean. I can't blame her but yeowch that does look bad at first. He knows she knows he suspects her so things are going to be awkward.

Well it should be obvious to anyone that he suspects her. He made that pretty clear in that rp!s.

Uh, no. She said she was trying to make it clear that it wasn't him but the ANONS' implications that made her want to pull out. Citing the anons words is giving evidence. That's actually making her look much better than p/a.

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