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I am going to delete all the dumb, aspergers worthy discussion threads.

this is not the place for talking about butts and farts and shrimp. take that to your plurk or rpanons.

ps you guys should link me new gifs or all you're going to get from now on is jensen ackles

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[(Anonymous)]

ok







but if someone is going to cuss me out, fling personal insults, talk down to me and generally be rude, why should I listen? you're being too aggressive/hostile may be derailment but on the other hand, I don't think I'm obligated to stick around and take abuse just because someone's hiding behind their social justice crusade.

[(Anonymous)]

You aren't obligated to stick around.

If you're there to say 'you're being too aggressive/hostile' you've chosen to stick around of your own free will because you have a burning need to PROVE THEM WRONG or deny the problem at hand, rather than a)apologising if you're at fault or b)walking away from the conversation

[(Anonymous)]

Except that saying "you're being too aggressive/hostile" is also an acceptable response to someone who is being aggressive and hostile. You're neither obligated to apologize to nor walk away from someone who decides to go full on asshole at you for something you said that was said in ignorance rather than malice. You have the right to confront them on their behavior if you see fit, and it's not derailment necessarily. It can also be, "I'm not going to listen to you until you decide to communicate in a more rational and respectful way."

They then have the right to refuse and continue raging, but they don't have the right to expect you to accept what they have to say when they say it abusively. That's common sense.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

No one is going to be interested in what you say when you react with hostility. That immediately makes the person you're conversing with defensive and off-put by anything you have to say. It single handedly damages your own cause beyond repair. Reacting like a dick causes people, especially neurotic hot messes that are common on plurk, to become neurotic hot messes. It makes everyone uncomfortable, and, it causes people to feel like they're personally a terrible human being who's intentionally an asshole, and not that they're just being ignorant.

I don't get it. SJW warriors think whenever someone reacts with, "You're being hostile to me!" is a way to discredit the argument when it's someone merely stating how they feel and how they're currently uncomfortable by someone else's behavior. But SJW's being totally shitty assholes and actively vitriolic towards merely ignorant people? Totally a-okay everyone!

That's just sheer hypocrisy. Much like, it's not my job to educate you. I get that people aren't obligated to type up years of interracial history/misogyny in media/etc. but keeping a handful of links/linking someone, or, at the very least, telling them what to google in a calm and rational manner (because I often see hostility and "IT'S NOT MY JOB TO EDUCATE YOU BUT I'M SURE AS HELL ALLOWED TO YELL AT YOU" together) can definitely be some help. I know there were things I was ignorant about and SJW's told me to google it, and, I tried only to get totally unhelpful results or results that were so problematic, they'd give any reasonable/unreasonable person that vies for social justice a total heartattack. This then resulted in a dumb circle where I'd ask for specific things, link the awful results I was getting and then getting yelled at to go deeper.

Ugh. But, as a minority, I really can't stand SJW's in general. Ever since some stupid judgmental whitey (SJW, everyone) launched accusations that I was ashamed in my own race for having an interracial relationship, I've been jaded on the movement.